Helping Loved Ones with Dementia: How to Encourage Proper Eating and Drinking

By Fiona Sembiring | November 29, 2023

Dementia is often confused for a disease, but it is actually a term used for the collection of abnormal symptoms that affect a person’s thinking, functioning, and interaction with others. People with dementia may be irritated or annoyed by new things, can have trouble remembering, have trouble focusing, and have difficulty using proper judgment. Although dementia is not a disease, dementia can be brought on by a disease or medical condition, such as Alzheimer’s disease, Huntington’s disease, multiple strokes, traumatic brain injury, and post-traumatic stress disorder. 

Although people with dementia do not require a special type of diet, the focus of healthy eating should be an appropriate amount of nutrition from each of the major food groups: half of what is eaten should be fruits and vegetables, a quarter should be grains, and the remaining quarter should be protein and dairy. Try to limit fats to healthy souces and salt by seasoning with different spices. You can help take care of your loved ones with dementia by creating a well-balanced meal plan with a variety of healthy foods. 

With dementia, the goal of a meal plan is to balance safety and independence. Learn to balance what your loved one wants to eat with what is good for the body. Mealtime can be difficult for family members, so we’ve provided some possible reasons that may be preventing your loved one from gaining the proper nutrition, as well as tips to encourage eating and drinking.

3  Possible Reasons Why a Loved One Might Not Want to Eat or Drink

  1. Loneliness and sadness caused by relationship changes

    Sit with your loved one during mealtime to encourage them.

  2. Poorly fitting dentures, missing or broken teeth, and mouth sores

    Visit the dentist regularly and check to make sure that the dentures are put in correctly.

  3. A lack of physical activity or exercise

    Stimulate an appetite by encouraging physical activity like taking a walk, helping with a chore, or doing a personal care task on their own.

Tips to Encourage Eating

Demonstrating

  • How to pick up a utensil and bring it to the mouth

  • Chewing and swallowing

Using Adaptive Equipment

  • Utensils with large, textured handles

  • Plates and bowls with sloped sides 

  • The color red can stimulate appetite in people with dementia

  • Plates and bowls that are a different color than the table or placemat for greater visibility

  • Avoid distracting patterns

Keeping Mealtime Simple

  • Serve familiar foods

  • Only put out items that are needed

  • No extra utensils, napkins, seasonings or sauces, or distracting decorations

  • Use smaller plates and bowls

  • Serve smaller portions five times a day

Rotating

  • Serve one food at a time

  • Turn the plate so all food is in the line of vision

Understanding

  • Eating time may be longer

  • Silverware may be confusing

  • Evenings may be more distracting due to changes in light and noise

Tips to Encourage Drinking

  • Provide healthy drink options like water, milk, and 100% fruit juice

  • Increase fluid intake from other sources like fruits, veggies, smoothies, and soups

  • Use the pattern of five bites of food followed by one drink

  • Refill a small cup multiple times instead of serving a large glass at once

  • Practice the behavior of drinking a cup of water after every activity

  • Try a bendable straw or cup with a nose cut-out for ease

  • Avoid high sugar beverages with empty calories

  • Limit caffeine that can interfere with sleep patterns

At Samaritan Senior Care, we believe in providing transparent and personalized support to help you navigate the difficulties of dementia. Our dedicated team is committed to assisting you every step of the way, ensuring a comprehensive understanding of the necessary standard and quality of care involved.

For more information and personalized guidance on in-home care services, reach out to Samaritan Senior Care today. Our experts are here to address your concerns and provide you with the necessary information to make well-informed decisions that prioritize the well-being of your loved ones.


All content and information on our website is created for informational purposes only. The information presented does not constitute medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment and does not substitute professional medical advice. Always consult an appropriate professional for advice related to your specific situation.

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